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How does one succeed in life?

11.06.2025 11:28

How does one succeed in life?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Does not procrastinate.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Ask yourself:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Why does my crush make me jealous about having a girlfriend?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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What I need from you?

Do not set goals—set systems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Making more friends is a goal.

Why do atheists want to see God so badly?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Why is every human messed up in some way?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Procrastinates a lot.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

My stepmother has banned me from the family. Can she legally keep me from going to my father's funeral?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

That's it for today.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Have you ever been forced into bestiality?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.